Enjoy the planning process and don’t forget that this is your day! You get lots of opinions from a lot of different people, and at the end of the day, that’s all it is – their opinion. It’s your day so you get to do what you want!! And you’re going to stress about all of the little things, like the colors of the napkins and silverware, but that’s just a small part of the day and most people won’t notice or remember those things. They are coming to celebrate your love and that’s what they are going to remember.